#560 Look Like a Million Dollars? Beauty, Botox, and Self-Worth

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Roy, it's nice to hear you, as always.

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I have a question for you, but rather a statement that you look like a million

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dollars. What does it mean?

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We're going to talk about physical look, but also in a psychological way.

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What does it mean to look like a million dollars? Because there's such a statement

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that I can't say. I look like a million dollars.

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It's terrible. But it's not like a million dollars. What does it mean?

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Look like a million dollars? When do we say it?

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Sometimes when you have a beautiful dress, you look professional,

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and sometimes you look like a million dollars.

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Like a million dollars.

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So when we see someone attractive, So, someone who has a lot of clothes,

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a lot of clothes, or something nice, or looks very nice, then it's like a million dollars.

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Okay, but now I have a question.

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What is it?

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Atractyjność. So, so, atractyjna. To what is it?

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Atractyjność. What is it? How does it look at the attraction? What does it mean?

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Sometimes it's, because this person is beautiful, very beautiful,

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but it depends on the person, because sometimes when a person is blind,

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it's attractive to other people, right?

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Not only the face, right? When it comes to attraction, it's not only physical,

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it's also internal, so intelligence and so on.

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So, an attractive person is not only so beautiful, but also intelligent person.

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It can also be a very good source source, because maybe you are not the 10 out

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of 10, You are not the smartest person in the world,

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but you have a lot of things that are also attractive from other people. It is more attractive.

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Okay, tell me, how is it today?

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Because most people say attractive to the word attractive to the physical one.

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Something that is attractive is something that we see and we like it.

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Now tell me, Roy, how is it today?

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Is the physical appearance, the attraction, is more important than when?

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Or is it so important? Or is it more important?

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How is it? Certainly, you can open the door when you are very beautiful.

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But when a person doesn't think, it will close the door, right? So, Boa,

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People want to talk about beautiful women, maybe beautiful women, beautiful women.

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That's not true. Yes, but I don't know, it's an impulse in the eyes, but then...

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There may be a few things, there may be a good thing, there may be a smart thing,

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there may be a beautiful person, but when I can't talk,

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I just say, I don't want to lose things, then it will be difficult,

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maybe for the first few months everything is fine, I have a physical attraction,

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and then it will be difficult, You are the most beautiful person, right?

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It must be... I don't know... Connection, right? Połączenie.

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Tell me in this case, how... We're talking about attraction,

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which is what brings attention to others.

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And now, how the physical look of this person impacts her own opinion?

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To znaczy osoba, która codziennie patrzy w lustro, tak?

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I powiedzmy, że się nie akceptuje. No właśnie. To jak to wpływa na jej samoocenę,

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na życie i na inne rzeczy, tak?

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To wpływa, no właśnie. To jest taka presja trochę.

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Tak. Bo nie, ja znam osoby, chłopak, kto cały czas patrzy na lustro. Kilkiego tygodnia.

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To jest choroby, tak? To is horrible.

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I don't know why people look at the window, but it's a problem. And women do it too.

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And I don't know.

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And when you look social media, people do it, but you don't look at it, because you do it.

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You always look at it.

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And it's a real thing. and that's what it's like.

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Because I watch her face all the time, and I also watch her face too. So, okay.

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So, when we watch, or we watch, or we watch, or we watch, or we watch, or we watch.

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Now the question is like, why, or how, or how, or how to influence these people?

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That means, the person who watches every day in this glass, or does a picture,

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and who really likes it to me, that means, I don't know, I don't like it, to mi się nie podoba.

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No i teraz, jak to wpływa na nią samo? Taka samokrytyka, taka autokrytyka właśnie.

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To jak to na nią wpływa? No bo na pewno nie pozytywnie. Bo,

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I think that sometimes it's like because my family doesn't speak and I love you.

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It's the value, right? Because sometimes it's not everything in the family, right?

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And because this person doesn't feel the value, so you look at the wall on the value, right?

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And you're sad, right?

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Yes. Yes, yes. So you're saying that people have problems like this,

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or like this, to be psychological.

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I just wanted to say that people who don't accept themselves,

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they also feel bad, they just feel bad.

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They have these problems, so it's like the foundation.

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But then in a daily life, They don't accept it, they don't accept it,

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they don't accept it, they don't accept it,

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they don't accept it, they don't accept it, they don't accept it,

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they don't accept it, they don't accept it.

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They don't accept it, they accept it, they accept it, they accept it,

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they accept it, they accept it, they accept it, they accept it,

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they accept it, they accept it, they accept it, they accept it,

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they accept it, they accept it, they accept it, they accept it,

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they accept it, they accept it, they accept it, they accept it,

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they accept it, they accept it, they accept it, they accept it,

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they accept it, they accept it And now, Roy, tell me, if the acceptance of physical look,

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of the body, of the body, of everything, is in today's time easy?

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Is it easy to feel like you are looking at it? Yes, I look at it and I say, I'm super.

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Is it easy today, or is it difficult for us to see other people?

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It depends on what I think.

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When people look at the stars, it's always so, because there is a lot of face construction.

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Operation and always has a base of clothes.

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So, there is a plastic thing here, you should say, right? Yes, yes.

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And when you look at the best clothes, I think, oh, I don't have these clothes,

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because I'm not beautiful.

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Always look at the street, always there are people who can be so beautiful,

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You should always be a better person. I don't know what the word is.

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You should always be a better person. You should always be a better person. So, that's right.

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So, the key to success is not to fall in a mistake. You've got a very nice topic here.

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I would like to ask you a question. You said that people like a group of people

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who have a lot of money to have a lot of plastic operations.

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No, right.

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Now, tell me, why do you think more people decide on these operations?

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Why do you do this? Because you look younger, right?

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And if it's young people and they don't have such needs?

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People look at it, for example, a lot of stuff, or maybe Botox.

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But... Unfortunately, people don't know how it is, because I think,

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that Botox will do it and it will be 6 months back, because it's...

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Disappear, to is in the middle,

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and then because you see people who are, for example, are 50,

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60, your heart is very large, because it is Botox in the middle,

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and then your heart is...

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Botox is not healthy for your body, very not healthy.

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And when you do something, you have to... For example, I do a few tattoos,

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because I had an operation on my back and it was a scare, I don't know, scare in Polish.

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Like a blizzard, a kind of a sign, right? Yes, and I don't like it that I do a lot of tattoos.

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And then my people, my people say, oh, this is Trump Stamp, so I do a new tattoo, Jack Daniels here.

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But then I also taught that tattoo is not-stourable, because ink is your limb

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system, so sometimes people do tattoo too,

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because you want to tattoo on your nose,

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so you always do your nose.

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I think that's good, I will look beautiful, but unfortunately it's not a problem,

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and when I return, I won't be tattooed.

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But when you don't do it, you have to think about it and see if it's not healthy.

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Not only tattoo, but Botox.

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You're talking about obsessive thinking about your appearance,

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attractiveness, that's not healthy.

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Well, tell me in the meantime.

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What are the consequences and effects of such operations?

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But not only. Operating is already a chirurgia. It's something,

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let's say, more serious.

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Chirurgia. I also, I'm also talking about a little bit like botox, or usta, or bruit.

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What are you talking about? You said a little bit about these consequences.

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That's what's going on, that's what's going on.

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That's what's going on. So what do you know, what else do you know, or do you know?

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When you have a lot of noces, you know, or something like that, it's okay.

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When you have a lot of noces, you don't feel good.

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Because I know a person from the USA who is a surgeon, and it can look better as an intrusion.

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When a person has an eye, who is... Because everything is not good.

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When a child has an eye, everything is not good. So it's a small operation and it will help people.

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Sometimes they have a hair lip. For example, when they are out of life,

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the operation here is good.

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But sometimes people do it to i to i to nie.

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Bo potem, kiedy na przykład uśmiechisz się, nie widzisz uśmiechisz się, bo wszystko z,

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Yes, it's energy, because I don't know if you are a good person,

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because your face is exactly the same.

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Yes, your face does not move. Yes, exactly.

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So, there are dangers and consequences.

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But are these operations really help?

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Because you said that there are good things, which are good things,

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which are positive things, but also negative things, which is a lot of botox,

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which is a lot of everything.

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But really, all these things can help us feel more atractive.

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It means that if I do something like that, I feel better, I feel more atractive.

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I mean, it's just a feeling.

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Everything depends on the person. For example, sometimes a person who may be

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40 has a lot of wrinkles. Yes, I know wrinkles.

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And maybe you want to,

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the most beautiful person. And then, maybe you don't have to be the most beautiful

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person, but you feel okay.

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So, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. And when you do this, you feel good.

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Everything depends on the person. But when you do this whole time,

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you have to do something, for example,

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one guy, who you look like Ken, Barbie and Ken, or thick, arms, He looks like a monster.

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There must be a line for the disease and it can be.

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This is the border between a little bit of improvement and obsession.

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You mentioned this example of the live Ken. It was quite popular.

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This story of the live Ken. And it's probably not one person,

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not one person, who does a plastic surgery, some kind of surgery,

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chirurgic surgery, to look like Ken, a boy Barbie.

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I don't like this, I don't like this. I don't like this. I don't like this.

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But, as a girl, there are women who want to look like Barbie.

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And they also have to look like this.

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They are very invasive. Because it's not a matter of tward.

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Or a way of the look. But, really, women who want to look like this.

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They have to look like this. They have to look like the body.

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All the parts of the body.

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To look like Barbie. barbie, co swoją drogą jest nienaturalne oczywiście,

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ale tak no niestety no właśnie, jest bardzo trudno się nie uzależnieć,

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no właśnie, od wszystkiego się można uzależnić, tak od kofeiny, od alkoholu,

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od tytoniu od wyglądu i od takiego poprawiania cały czas siebie samego,

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tak, że ciągle chcę wyglądać lepiej, lepiej, lepiej jest to swojego rodzaju presja,

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no ale właśnie trzeba znać umiar, znać umiar, no właśnie A now tell us, Roy,

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a question about the last question. How is it in society?

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How are people who are interested in it? We use internet, we see what happens, there is no mystery.

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There is a lot of people who are interested in it.

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That they don't like it, that they don't like it, or they don't like it. They don't like it.

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They don't like it. It's a long-term, a long-term look.

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They say, they're plastic, they're not aesthetic, they're stupid,

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they're not a sense, they're better to be natural.

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No, right, Roy. And how do you think, like you think, how do you think it's better to be natural?

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Natural, maybe a little bit, but not a lot.

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Or, in fact, obsessive is here.

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Well, as I said, no, sorry, Ugo, it can be so, it's so, it's so,

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but a woman also does the first breast implant.

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I have one of my weekly podcasts about doctors who do this, for 30 years,

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and I'm saying, that it's very nice to be, to jest tak,

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bo to jest silikon w środku twoje ciało i wszystko jest źle.

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And on mówi, nie, wszystko jest w porządku. Kilka lat później on mówi,

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ja myślę, że to było dobrze, to jest bardzo źle.

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So, wiem, może nie czuję się, bo nie mam tak dużo, masz troszeczkę.

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Wszystko jest w porządku, tak? Musisz uczyć, co będę robić, tak?

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Kiedy robisz twarz, to not just listen to one doctor, because unfortunately,

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many doctors only earn, so?

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It's a few. And you can talk with someone, who speaks about your...

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Why are you not happy? Because maybe you don't have to change your body.

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Maybe you just change your mind.

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It's like a positive word, not a negative word, not a bad word for you,

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because a lot of people say a bad word same.

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I don't do that, but I've heard a lot of people say a bad word.

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But your mouth doesn't know what is the truth, so it's not.

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So you can talk with a person, but it must be an operation. Mhm.

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No tak, czyli tutaj znowu kwestia takiego myślenia po prostu pozytywnego, tak?

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Żeby nie dać się zwariować i naprawdę nie popadać w ten obłęd właśnie takiej presji społecznej.

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No tak, Roj, bardzo ciekawy swoją drogą podcast.

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Ja myślę, że w przyszłości rozwinę bardziej ten temat zabiegów medycyny estetycznej,

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bo one są bardzo na topie teraz. And I think that will be still.

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So I think that I will be a podcast on a topic that is just about this.

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And only with this. So today I'm about physical physical activity.

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And these operations were also needed here. Because it's going to be a look.

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It's going to be a progress and a better way.

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So, I'm going to get my opinion on this topic. And of course,

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on all these operations, attractiveness and on any other topic.

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So, it doesn't have to be that. So, thank you very much. Thank you very much. And see you soon.

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