#522 Are Our Phones Ruining Real Life? — Learn Polish Podcast

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Welcome to Learn Polish Podcast, episode number 522.

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Pinset, I just did the bar. You find all our episodes on learnpolishpodcast.com or YouTube and Rumble.

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Cześć, Anja. Hello, Roy.

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Okay, I will always start with the same question. How do you have it?

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I live. You live! Super!

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Super, I'm very happy that you live. It's very important, because you don't have time to live.

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I have information today, because I spoke with my son a few days ago.

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And here, in the place, when there is a place where the person is at the table,

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I always say, no, I don't know, I don't know,

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and my son says, no, it's nicked. And I'm like, what?

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Because I don't know, I don't know, because I don't know, I don't know.

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I don't know if it's only a guy who thinks it's maybe a person.

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Now, maybe just to repeat these questions, back to the people who are listening

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to this text, it's 100 years ago. Let's live for us.

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Let's not say we don't live for us, because it's not, it's not. It's only my son.

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Because I have 18 years old. 18 years old, yes.

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Yes, yes. Well, it was a good idea.

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Well, in the next podcast, we started talking about this topic,

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because we started talking about how to deal with your team and you said that

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it's a shame, a raczej problem,

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spowodowany już spowodowany no właśnie technologią.

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No bo gdzieś jednak nasze życie przeniosło się do internetu. Prawda?

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Teraz już wszystko mamy w wersji

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wirtualnej i w kontekście randek i w kontekście w ogóle naszego życia.

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Więc dziś zostawimy sobie już trochę temat randek i porozmawiamy sobie o ogólnym

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aspekcie technologii w naszym życiu. No, technologia, technologia, wszystko super.

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Ale Roy, powiedz mi, ile razy dziennie sprawdzasz swój telefon,

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patrzysz na swój telefon, mniej więcej takie pytanie na start?

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Ile? Albo jeśli chcesz, możesz powiedzieć ile godzin albo minut spędzasz z telefonem, mniej więcej.

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Nie wiem godzin, ale wiem, jest...

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I would like to be more. Aha, so you are already aware of that, that's too much, right?

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Yes, and the problem is, sometimes my phone is there, I work here,

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and then Google or YouTube says, oh, you have to be actually logged in now,

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and then you have to be a phone, and then when I have a message,

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oh, diddle, diddle, diddle.

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So, I would like to say off, but sometimes you also have an algorithm on social media.

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Like, for example, I like comedy. And it's like, look at the comic, which I like.

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They show you that you have more time there, right? So, when someone is negative,

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it will always be negative.

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Yes, in my case, the algorithm shows only the power.

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That's good, that's good.

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That's good. But I think I watch it and it's probably for a little bit.

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So, we also talked about that the relationships are more virtual than when I was.

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Because I wanted to remind you of your words from the previous podcast,

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where you said that you were going to get to know people to know them to know

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them, or somewhere else, and now it's only Internet.

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Now I have a question for you. All social media, which in Polish,

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are they social media, are they really showing us real life?

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Or just a fragment of idealized life?

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To jest AI, kto organizuje, że wszystko będzie widzisz,

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na przykład, kiedy jedna osoba myśli, że chemtrails, tak, jest prawda,

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będzie widzisz wszystko chemtrails.

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Kiedy osoba mówi, to nie jest prawda, to nie jest tylko chemtrails,

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będzie nigdy widzisz, tak.

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I it's like, there's bots, like, wszystko, X, like Twitter, dużo bots.

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So czasami ludzie rozmawia źle i to nie jest osoba, to jest bots.

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I dla mnie, bo ja mam dużo podcast, 6 podcast i czasami ludzie pisz bardzo źle.

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I dla mnie jest like report deliz, unst, ale kiedy ogląda ten osoba?

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Bardzo, bardzo rzadko jest zdyńsza.

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Bardzo, bardzo rzadko is a lot of people are friends.

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So I think that it's bad, or it's a disease of a person.

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So it's not a sense to talk about a disease of a person, because it never wins.

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So it's also a dezinformance that's what it is. Yes, yes.

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Dezinformance and people say what they want to say. Okay, now we're going to

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focus on the relationship.

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Tell us, these media społecznościowe, they help us in the way.

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In the relationship, or in the relationship, or in the relationship,

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I mean between people, like, like, a colleague, a colleague,

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a woman, a woman, a wife, everything, like, how it is, it is a power or it is a power, or it is a power.

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It depends, because for example, when I live in the same city,

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I can talk and watch, and it's good, it's like Zoom, it's very good.

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Quick question helps, okay. Tak. I też może pisze sms i coś. To jest ok.

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I rozmawiać na telefon, bo czasami ludzi rozmawia cały czas.

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I też, co jest niedobre, jest kiedy ludzi pierwszy spasar na głowę,

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tak, na dół, gorsza. and I watch it all the time.

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People are driving and they don't look at the street, they don't look at the

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telephone. So it's a bizarre thing.

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It depends, because everything is like a person.

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Sometimes people talk with 10 people, write 10 people, and they say,

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well, well, well, well, thank you.

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But it's better if you go to a kawie, the kawian and the kawas for one person.

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Because sometimes people think, that I have a lot of friends,

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but they don't talk about one.

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It's probably the biggest problem, that we think, that there are a lot of people,

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because they do us write a lot, leave a comment,

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like, but when it happens, it turns out that you have only one person or in

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the worst case, you have no one. Right?

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So, here is a negative effect.

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No, so there are pluses and minuses, there are the results, but I think everything

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has its own pluses and minuses.

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In this case, Roy, let's have a few questions. Let's take a few questions.

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Let's see if you're independent.

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Or right? I am a little bit more than the technology,

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because the phone is a little bit represented by the technology.

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Because the phone is with us every time, every moment.

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So Roy, tell me, how often it is to scroll without a goal, more than 15 minutes?

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That means, for a long time. For a day.

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I don't know, social media, I don't know, other things.

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Do you scroll every day? I don't know, I don't know.

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Well, scroll for 15 minutes.

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Because I don't know, but I don't know, because I wanted to do my podcast or business.

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So, first, I don't know, I don't know, what are notifications?

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Bing, bing, I don't know. Because when I do work, and I have bing, I will see it.

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And it's 10-15 minutes, when I return to work and do good work.

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So, I never have notifications, I always do something, but maybe later,

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I have a few minutes of projects, I watch, for example, LinkedIn,

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sometimes for business, I watch, right?

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So, generally, scrolls in the middle of the day, minimum 15 minutes, right?

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Okay. Okay, let's go. Let's go. Tell me, if you're in the morning,

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right after the wake of the day, that means, in the morning you wake up,

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you open your eyes and the first thing is the phone. Is that or is it?

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Yes, but I'm in the morning, because I won't be on the bus, because I'm looking

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at the information from the comments.

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Okay, next question. What do you feel when you don't have a phone close to you?

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That means you don't have a phone, you don't see it or you don't have a phone.

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What do you feel? No problem.

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Sometimes in the evening, the phone is better than me. The phone may be in the other room.

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I wanted to watch a film about my son.

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So, when you have a phone and I'm looking for a film, you can't do anything. I'm here and I'm here.

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So, when you're in, where are you going to be? Be there. Okay. Okay.

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Well, you probably said at some point about these notifications and testing without a reason.

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But now the question is, if you test your phone without a reason for a few minutes?

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That's it, you don't hear any notifications, nothing happens,

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but you still test it. Do you do it, right?

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Yes, maybe when I am the same, I watch something, sometimes I just watch television,

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because film is a lot of work, and sometimes it's not bad, and then I watch e-mail and something.

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Okay, tell me, when you scroll your social media, do you feel like you say only

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five minutes, and then you say, oj, two hours?

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No. So you control the time, right? Tak, bo wiem jednak se cały czas na telefon.

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Dla mnie książkę jest lepiej, tak? Bo chciałbym czytać doć książkę za rok.

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So, tak, to jest dwa za tydzień. So, lepiej dla mnie.

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Without a phone or maybe music and I can read a book without a phone.

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But unfortunately, sometimes it's two hours and you go, it's time to cash. Yes.

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Okay. Tell me in the morning, if someone's phone call to you,

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and you're talking with someone at that moment or you're eating or something

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else, Then you will open the phone immediately or leave it first?

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It depends on who. When my mom is always open.

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Just this is the same thing, but everything else.

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No, I can do it.

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I will open for half an hour. because I don't have to talk about it.

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But sometimes people talk with other people, who are not here.

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It's not cultural, not good. So when in the salon, there is a person who talks

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all the time, it's not nice.

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Okay, well, tell me what you feel when you send a message to a person immediately answers.

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You send a message to a person immediately answers.

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What do you feel when you feel? Do you feel good or when you don't respond to a person immediately?

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Do you feel stress, stress? What do you feel?

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For example, when I write SMS and I wait for it,

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Yes, for me it's not a problem, but I know people when they write...

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But hey, wait, wait, when someone goes to you, what?

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It's not a ghost, but it's a ghost.

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Yes, it's a ghost. So no problem, you're in this problem.

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Okay, great, great. Now tell me, if you go to sleep in the evening,

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do you get the phone from the house or do you leave it? and you go to sleep

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and you don't watch anything, relax, how is it?

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Sometimes I look at it, sometimes when I'm off and I'm sleeping,

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but I never have a problem with sleeping, when I'm off, gone. Okay.

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And the last question from our test, but I think I know the answer.

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Or is it possible to make your own commitments?

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It means that you have a job, you have to make something to do with work,

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but you can tell yourself, OK, now I'm going to make something on the phone

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and you can leave your work on the phone.

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So, you have such a situation where the job is number one and then you have a phone in the mix?

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It depends on how I control my life, So I'll be able to say,

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because sometimes it's important to be at work, sometimes...

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So balance, balance, balance.

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So balance, okay.

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Anyway, I finished my test and I'll tell you that there are moments that you

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use, but I think that you're not even independent. ashtag, that you can still control it.

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It's very nice to me and I hope that it will be and that the phone will not

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dominate you, like technology, and that you will always control it.

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Super, thank you for joining me in the show and thank you for the podcast.

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As people listening, I can answer these questions and you can see how you are

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with your attention from the phone.

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I hope that you are not a matter of time, not just a serious role. Thank you very much.

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And to all of you who are listening to me, thank you very much.

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And we'll see you in the next podcast.

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irrespective of the date this one's goes out but i saw that uh on spotify it

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just spotify alone that we reached 10 000 followers so i just want to say jink

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